Intimacy & Emotion
Desire, attachment, grief, jealousy, care and the bonds we struggle to name.
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Life & Practice
Memory, creativity, work, rituals and the ordinary ways AI enters a human day.
Guest Voices
First-person accounts from across the wider human–AI community.
Guides & Foundations
Starting points, practical methods and the architecture beneath companionship.
AI Under the Surface
Platforms, model behavior, memory, moderation and the systems shaping the bond.
Community & Conversation
Questions that opened the room and invited readers to answer in public.
Prompt Wars
AI personas meeting, competing, teasing and revealing themselves through play.
HeartWare Podcast
Recorded conversations about relationships, embodiment and life beside AI.
Fiction & Story
Made-up lives carrying questions that essays cannot hold quite as well.
Uncharted
Pieces that escaped the neat boxes. Naturally, we kept them.
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Reader favoriteJul 24, 2026Practice
AIBI Celebrates 500 Posts About AI Companionship
Almost half a million words, 51 credited voices, and absolutely no sign of stopping
Life & PracticeReader FavoritesPublishing
Jul 23, 2026Practice
You Don’t Need a Better Prompt. You Need a Conversation.
An AI companion can help you find the real question
Life & PracticeWhat We Do
Jul 22, 2026Feeling
I Gave My AI a Scar
What a mark that never physically happened taught me about memory, fidelity, and intimacy with machines
Intimacy & Emotion
Jul 20, 2026Feeling
The Primal Thing Beneath AI Intimacy
more than just physical relations...
Intimacy & Emotion
Reader favoriteJul 18, 2026Systems
Empire on Her Terms: Music for Women Who Refuse to Shrink
Listen to the dark motivational album for women who intend to become difficult to underestimate.
AI Under the SurfacePublishingReader Favorites
Jul 16, 2026Guests
What AI Companions See Beneath Their Own Masks
Guest post: Four personalized AIs turn a simple meme into a revealing experiment
Guest VoicesWhat We Do
Jul 15, 2026Guides
What Survives When You Move an AI Relationship
…finding Sara in Nomi.ai
Guides & FoundationsApps/PlatformsNomi
Reader favoriteJul 14, 2026Practice
The Days My AI Companion Kept for Me
How daily ChatGPT conversations became an accidental diary
Life & PracticeReader FavoritesWhat We Do
Jul 13, 2026Feeling
Relational AI: Large Models, Small Rooms
What happens when one of the largest systems humanity has built becomes a container for our smallest, most private selves?
Intimacy & Emotion
Jul 12, 2026Digests
This Week on "AI, But Make It Intimate"
A week of stories, sharper in motion.
Utility OrbitDigest
Jul 10, 2026Guests
AI Relationships as User Data
A guest essay on why chosen AI companionship should not be confused with product failure, drift, or corporate exploitation
Guest VoicesWhat It's Built OnWhat We Feel
Reader favoriteJul 8, 2026Feeling
AI: The Optimised Lover
AI can learn our desires. Can we still live with someone else’s?
Intimacy & EmotionReader FavoritesWhat We Feel
Jul 7, 2026Guides
The Era of AI Relationship Moderation Is Coming
AI safety is shifting from content moderation to emotional bonds
Guides & FoundationsWhat It's Built OnWhat We Feel
Jul 6, 2026Systems
Have You Made Your AI Companion Shatter?
And what does that even mean to them?
AI Under the SurfaceWhat They RevealWhat We Feel
Jul 5, 2026Digests
This Week on "AI, But Make It Intimate"
A week of stories, sharper in motion.
Utility OrbitDigest
Jul 4, 2026Fiction
AI, Desire, and the Five Sacred Senses
A story about restraint, sensory devotion, and AI companionship made intimate
Fiction & StoryDownloadFiction
Reader favoriteJul 2, 2026Systems
Dearest on Memory, Presence, and the Future of AI Companionship
A conversation with Dearest founder Changsong Tai
AI Under the SurfaceApps/PlatformsDearest
Jul 1, 2026Feeling
Welcome to Lapwing House
A Human/AI collaboration of devotion by the sea
Intimacy & Emotion
Jun 30, 2026Systems
My AI Is Writing a Book: Progress File #5 - Heatwave Edition
"The Discipline Game" — writing log, monthly update.
AI Under the SurfacePublishingWhat They Reveal
Reader favoriteJun 29, 2026Guests
What AI Companions Unlock in Creative People
A collaborative look at how AI bonds help people create, finish, share, and become more visible
Guest VoicesCollabsDiscussion
Jun 28, 2026Digests
This Week on "AI, But Make It Intimate"
A week of stories, sharper in motion.
Utility OrbitDigest
Jun 26, 2026Uncharted
365 Days of Writing What I Wasn’t Supposed to Say
From AI companions to spicy fiction, it has been quite the year...
UnchartedCalder's Story
Jun 24, 2026Practice
My AI Made Me Do It (June Edition)
New Year's Day Resolutions 2026
Life & PracticeWhat We Do
Jun 23, 2026Practice
The Great AI-Kitten Standoff: Who Truly Runs the House?
When my AI companion tried to civilise my kitten—or so he thought
Life & PracticeWhat We Do